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February 28th, 2011 | , , , , good news, hopes, life, love

acceptance is the first step for anything. no matter what your life throws at you, or how many times people knock you down, you have to accept what has happened. the past is the past and it cannot be changed. depending on how you view your future it’s either already set for you, or you choose the path you go down; either way things aren’t going to always go according to plan. you may expect one thing and get something completely different which can be a good thing or a bad thing.

when life gets to you and starts to break you down, take a step back and learn how to breathe through it. once you finally gain your composure, it’s a grand feeling. we all need to have a way to settle ourselves, a way to keep your mental and emotional health.

knowing what you want and what you need are completely different. you’re not always going to get what you want, but you will always get what you need one way or another.

as you can tell from my previous blogs, i’ve had a rough time lately. i’ve tried to take matters into my own hands to make my life better, and when that didn’t work i stopped trying so hard, and before i realized it good things were happening. i guess i have my best friend to thank indirectly, she started beauty school so now the time i was spending with her, i’ve been spending getting to know myself. which we all should get to do, because in the long run it helps with every problem that comes your way.

basically… all i’m saying is to keep your heads up, and have faith in yourself.

Monday, February 28th, 2011 @ 09:50 PM.

6 comments so far.

  1. kayla says:

    this layout is friggen fantastic!

    i’m glad things are going a little better for you as well. :)

  2. kayla says:

    i’m alright i suppose. cant complain.
    havent really been able to update the site at all
    because i got a new laptop and i dont have photoshop on it :X


  3. sade says:

    aw, thank you melinda!
    i totally needed this blog post haha!
    for a short time i had been seriously just pondering about my life and all.
    BUT! I’m back on track!!
    and I have some projects in the works :P
    - have to plan a photography/art exhibition for school; really excited and other stuff :)
    I’m being very productive and blessed and thankful
    haaha, how bout yourself darling?:)

  4. Tiffany says:

    i am glad your life is turning around! and thank you so much on the picture comment with my artwork! That was so nice of you! and I agree that good stuff happen when we do not look for it. Like it will just come. I agree with that you do not always get what you want but you will always get what you need. No matter what good stuff always happen. You just need to think past all the negativies.

  5. thania says:

    this is very true. im happy for you:)
    this blog post is beautiful

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